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Father’s Day Announcements to My Ex

 

Classic Letterman.  If only I could hire him to deliver these announcements . . .

Classic Letterman. If only I could hire him to deliver this list . . .

Since my Ex-Husband sent the kids home to me on Mother’s Day expecting them to tell me that he was getting married,  see My Ex Husband is Getting Married, I’ve compiled a list of  announcements I should  (but of course won’t) make to him on Father’s Day.

Top 5 Father’s Day Announcements To My Ex!!

5.  Your only son (so far) is gay!

Not that there's anything wrong with that!

(Not that there’s anything wrong with that, a la Seinfeld,  and no, he is not gay, but it would probably bother the Ex, so wouldn’t that be fun?)

4.   I’m getting married, too —  to a polygamist.  So not only will the kids get a father figure,  but I will have  at least three other sister wives  and their kids all helping to raise our children!!!   Isn’t that great?     Sisterwives

(Deciding to raise the children in an alternate lifestyle is always a nice surprise, right?  And this news would certainly trump and dilute his plans to add just one wife to the kids’ lives.   Anyway, I always wondered about what the fourth sister wife’s ex-husband thought about his three  kids, who are school age, calling her new polygamist  husband Daddy, having  all these extra Moms and siblings and doing it all on television,  but I digress . . .  I digress a lot, and often)

3.  I’m suing for additional child support.

(‘nuf said)

2.  I’ve decided to go to your wedding.   I think it’s best for the kids, don’t you?

You Outta Know!

(I’ll attend with the vintage Alanis Morissette, “You Outta Know”  attitude.   Hell, I might even be convinced to offer a song.)

And the classic, almost clichéd announcement, but works every time:

1.  You are NOT the father (a la Maury Povitch) 

Just Me With . . . some Father’s Day Announcements.  

A Rat In My House

It was like a horror movie.

I was in law school.  Or, actually I was done with law school and studying for the bar exam.   In my infinite wisdom and with a splash of arrogance I decided I did not need the assistance of the bar exam prep courses everyone else took.  No,  I put myself on a home private study regimen.   My husband and I had no children at the time,  we were living in our little starter home with our adorable Labrador Retriever.

I would study most of the day, take a break in the evening when my husband got home, and then do a night shift of studying after he went to bed.  My mini-split level had a pseudo downstairs den and a small damp room which  I used as a study.   There were sliding glass doors from the den opening to a small yard and  beyond that, a  wooded area.  We hadn’t been in the house long.  The previous owners used to leave the sliding doors cracked a bit so that their small dog could come and go, which, of course,  allowed other critters to become accustomed to coming into the house.  We, of course, discontinued that practice,  kept the sliding doors closed, had the place exterminated,  and didn’t have any problems with pests — or so I thought.

One night, during my late night study session downstairs,  long after my husband had gone to bed, something ran across the room.  It was NOT my adorable lab.  No, this was smaller than a lab, bigger than a mouse, too fast to be a possum and had a long hairless tail.  A freaking rat.  A huge gray rat!

A RAT!

I gasped so hard, I almost swallowed my tongue.  But, I’m a tough girl.  Bugs don’t bother me.  I’ll get dirty outside,  I have a strange interest in serial killers and I seriously considered becoming a mortician at one point in my life —  but vermin? — not my thing.   I sat completely still waiting for it to come back.  Afraid that if I moved it would come after me.  I heard scratching; it was still in the house.   So I did the responsible thing and ran up the half flight of stairs, through the kitchen, rounded the corner  to the next flight of stairs, turned into my room, closed the door and  jumped in bed.  May have done it all in four steps.   Studying done for the night.   I woke up my husband, told him we had a rat.   He didn’t get up, said he’d look for it in the morning.    I had nothing more to do but wait for the sweet release of  sleep, behind my closed bedroom door.

Rambo

Rambo

My husband went to work very early.  As usual, he got up before me.   Before leaving, however,  he woke me  to exclaim that  he’d killed the rat with an arrow  — he had hunted it down and stabbed it.    He asked me if I heard it screaming.  I had not.  He was so proud.   But, he added,  it had gotten away and he’d have to find it when he got home because he couldn’t be late for work.   Huh? I was half asleep, murmured, okay.  Thanks.

I woke later.  Looking down the stairs,  I saw my dog’s butt.   She was on her haunches staring into the kitchen.

This can’t be good, I thought.

I was right.

I slowly descended the stairs and peeked into the kitchen. My dog looked up at me as if to say, “Um, we have a situation here.”

Rosemary’s Baby

There, on my kitchen floor, was a quite large, dead rat.  It had apparently been wounded and emerged from its hiding place and did a death crawl to the middle of my small kitchen.  Entrails hanging, a train of blood and guts behind it.  It finally succumbed to its wounds equidistant from the kitchen sink and refrigerator, almost blocking the steps to the downstairs den and study where my books were.

My study regimen for the day did not include disposing of a dead rat. My knight in shining armor did not complete the job.

I freaked.  Of course I did the mature thing and went back to bed.

That didn’t last.  I was afraid my dog would play with it.  Really, though,  the dog was like, “I’m not getting near that thing.”   Plus, it was Summer and we did not have central air.  My husband was unreachable, this was before cell phones and he worked on the road.  I hadn’t made friends with any neighbors yet.  I was on my own . . .  and I needed to study.  I considered grabbing my books and heading out to the library, my parents’ house, anywhere, to study for the day.   But my books were downstairs, through the kitchen.  My husband wouldn’t be home for hours.

I cursed him.  I cursed him like I’d never cursed him before (of course events in later years have elevated my cursing him to an art form).

How could he go all Rambo like that on the rat  and not finish the job — leaving his wife to dispose of the body?  What kind of man was he to leave me with this mess?   Oh, he must have been so proud running around stabbing this rat and then walking off into the sunrise, leaving the corpse to me, a sleeping student suffering through the stress of the impending bar exam.   Damn, him.  Damn. Damn. Damn.

Cursing him to myself did not help.  The dead rat was still in the kitchen.

I’d taken my dog out the front door and around to the fenced back yard.   The dead rat was still in the kitchen.

I cursed my husband again.  The dead rat was still in the kitchen.

I’d have to get rid of it, without looking at it, without feeling its weight, without dropping it.  I still shudder.

Damn him (husband), damn the rat.

The whole disposal operation took me about two hours.  I had to rest  between tasks.  My study schedule was ruined for the day.   Once the carcass was removed, I disinfected the floor to a level beyond operating room clean, many trees lost their lives to make the mound of  paper towels I used.  Lysol was my soul mate.

But I don’t think I ever went barefoot in that kitchen again.

When my husband came home I was a raving lunatic.   He laughed.  He thought it was hilarious.  At some point much later I was able to laugh about it, too.  But I still cursed him.  I still do.

Clean up after your  kill, man.  Clean up after your kill.

Just Me With  . . . a dead rat,  paper towels, a shovel, Lysol, and trash bags.

See also, Tales from The Bar Exam